Newly arrived for male chastity discussion

Hi everyone, I’m new to this community and (kind of) new to genuine male chastity. After reading Sarah Jameson’s “Be Careful What You Wish For” last night and showing it to my wife, I’m excited for the long haul—days, weeks, months, maybe even years:o without being able to control my own orgasms right away. Right now I’m using a CB-3000 device for some time to see if this lifestyle suits both her and me. Oh, about that “kind of” part: we actually tried it before once. It worked intermittently for roughly 6 months, but our closeness wasn’t quite where it needed to be. So rather than true chastity (with plenty of teasing), it felt more like forced celibacy.