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Honor System or Device?

member_ef260e9aa3 · 2026-08-23T13:42:28.000Z · 1 reply

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2026-08-23T13:42:28.000Z #1

I got a curious email from someone trying to decide if they should purchase a device. He mentioned his wife is keeping him in denial and that the pair are practicing chastity using the honor system. His main question was whether he truly needs a physical device, noting his wife might view it as overly kinky.

On my end, I’m not entirely convinced that a mental-only approach (no hardware) holds up well over time—though having no penis and never ejaculating puts me in an odd position to judge. So, I’m tossing this out there for the men here.

From where I sit, devices are appealing. Even though the CB (which Ab is sporting currently) isn’t exactly the most glamorous gadget on earth, its function really gets me going. I also enjoy that little “clack clack” sound of the lock hitting the plastic now and then.

What do you all think? D

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2026-08-23T14:26:39.443Z #2

That's amusing. I was just about to start a thread on this exact topic... Personally, I couldn't manage without hardware. After two or three months (or longer), I feel like my resolve would crumble. In fact, I'd likely spend most of that time edging myself constantly. Enforced chastity is more than simply controlling your orgasm; it’s about losing access to the very thing that defines your masculinity (in a good way). There's an emotional layer on top of just not cumming. It’s the difference between "I could come if I wanted to, but I choose not to" and "Oh god! I physically cannot come!" At least for me. Maybe I'm rambling; it's early and no coffee yet.

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