Qweenbsubi excavating the hole

My wife and I have been exploring chastity since 2012. We started with Chinese cages, then spent some time using the Steelworxx Looker. Eventually, we got pierced which allowed me to wear the Looker with a PA lock, leading us to settle on a modular Model 5 device from Rigid (modified), still featuring that same Steelworxx PA lock. I’d love to try a Loris eventually, but she mentioned she’s taking a break for now. This journey has been slow and intermittent, yet we always return because it works well for our dynamic. It opened up a new side of ourselves years ago. Two years back, we began extending denial periods, which evolved into total orgasm control via device only; I simply cannot function without one. This process ultimately led to my full submission to her last year. It took so long because life and kids got in the way earlier on. When things clicked, she started running a full pampering routine: nightly bath water while kneeling by her side washing and massaging her (we have a chiropractic table set up in our bedroom) four times a week, ending with me receiving orgasms. I’ve taken over most of her previous housework duties. I often catch her wandering around looking for something to do only to find it already done. She is fully on my pedestal; she’s my trophy and I treat her as such. It took her time to accept all this care, but now she expects it consistently. Through this journey, she has found her dominant side, which makes me incredibly happy. Watching her transform from completely vanilla into a woman with a two-foot by six-foot toy cabinet in our closet is very pleasing; she uses the toys as she pleases and her imagination is becoming quite interesting. Our sixteen-year marriage only grows stronger as we dive deeper into this lifestyle, thanks to chastity and orgasm control. I see us moving toward a loving FLR soon. We are private and monogamous people navigating all of this together. With our three daughters, we show them that a man can help with housework while treating their mother like royalty in a vanilla setting. This journey never gets old for us; there is always new adventure ahead. To sum it up: I feel the more she receives, the more she wants. It’s like digging this hole I want to be in and have no desire to climb out of. When we look at other couples, their relationships often seem rocky or troublesome compared to ours, which feels as strong as when we first met.