Dharma Project The Quarantine Beginning

It officially started around Christmas when my wife bought me a crop to use on her. We then had an open conversation about things and I opened up to her about my toys that I had kept hidden from her over the years. We discussed fantasies and what we would like to experience under perfect conditions. Somehow, we ended up trading spaces and I found out that I enjoyed submitting to her and being spanked with various impact toys. I’m honestly not sure how we ended up switching places as being spanked with crops, paddles, canes, etc., was never something that I thought I wanted. We’ve also experimented with her pegging me and the use of butt plugs. Around this time, I showed her the ball weights that I’d occasionally wear. This led to her picking one out each morning for me to wear and then her removing it at night. In my search for a locking ball weight, I stumbled onto “real” chastity cages. I ordered a couple to try out and received them about a month before the quarantine started. When the quarantine started, I told her that I’d like for her to keep the key and for me to be kept locked except when she decided to unlock me. We discussed cleaning schedules and frequency of orgasms for me. I told her that I wanted her to have total control. Over the past few months, we’ve transitioned from her leaving the key where I could access them to keeping them hidden and in a lockbox which only she knows the combination. I’ve upgraded my cages from the cheap pinching cage from Lock the Cock to a Mature Metal Jailbird and Evotion Cage 8, both of which I had to have adjustments made. She has admitted that she’s enjoying having me locked more than she thought she would and has told me that my orgasms no longer really matter. She has also grown into a more dominating role with weekly maintenance spankings with no safe word, applying icy hot to my balls before I start tasks, and her decision on how I get to orgasm. On April 1st, we agreed that one day would be added to the number of times I would get to orgasm and I quickly realized how evil she could be when she told me that I’d be allowed to orgasm one night with a hand job in the shower. She’s decided that I’m only allowed to orgasm inside her on special occasions and has made me consume my orgasm a few times. She’s allowed me to perform oral on her several times with no reciprocation and has permitted me to have PIV several times but not allowing me to orgasm. It has all been a very hot experience.