First off, I want to express my gratitude for all the help in selecting the correct sizes for my custom-made belt. (Unfortunately, I’m unable to load up my old thread right now; otherwise, I’d link it directly). Anyway, a couple of months back I ordered a Queen’s Keep and got it around September. Since then, I’ve been wearing it intermittently.
Ultimately, I have to say that out of the three different devices I’ve worn before, none came close to the comfort level of this custom belt. Initially, my wife and I were somewhat skeptical because, as expected, a custom-made option costs quite a bit more than other cages. On the flip side, “Tease & Denial” is something we enjoy doing together, which led us to go for it. (That said, if a custom cage had been my very first one, I think I would definitely have chosen incorrectly). However, there are still a few issues.
Issue 1: It seems difficult to get the positioning “right.” Either I retract my foreskin and push my penis in, or I use the sock method. Option one feels more comfortable during the day and makes urinating less messy. But at night, my penis can expand more from the root, leading to painful nocturnal erections. With option two, my foreskin gets pinched occasionally, and urine tends to get trapped. At night, my erection doesn’t grow as much, which is actually quite comfortable; however, if I wear it for more than two consecutive nights, my foreskin starts to swell. Currently, I push the penis in with the foreskin retracted, then pull some of the remaining loose skin into the cage once it’s on, leaving the glans exposed. This seemed to work well until I was released after three days and noticed a bruise on the underside of my shaft. This is likely due to nighttime erections pushing the cage away and crunching the foreskin against the metal below. (When pulling the skin in after putting it on, I only pull from the top). Does anyone have tips for wearing it properly?
Issue 2: After three days of wear, I noticed that the skin on my balls and shaft became very dry, and I’m losing a small amount of skin across both areas. Do I need to moisturize daily?