My spouse is quite conservative and traditional, raised in a deeply religious home where many things are considered taboo. We wed relatively quickly and she was still a virgin at the time. Both of us work as physicians, and we have been together for over ten years with multiple children. She rarely allows me to touch her intimate area except when using my equipment, and oral sex is completely off-limits. She tends to be quite nervous, so I suggested that she take charge by tying my hands to help her feel more at ease. This has evolved into us purchasing an inexpensive Chinese htv2 replica for use in short intervals throughout the day. Our marriage is strong and dedicated, but I am eager to introduce new experiences and help her become more comfortable with adventurous activities. The chastity cage is functioning well; she appears content with it and likely finds it arousing even if she won’t admit it.
Has anyone else experienced something comparable? Do you have any suggestions or techniques that worked for you? My ideal scenario involves her binding me up, using the cage, and allowing me to bring her to an orgasm through oral sex. I know she dislikes it greatly; when I mentioned it before, she nearly threatened to leave. Any advice would be appreciated.