I just got back home on Friday after an extended business trip. My partner and I are usually very sexually active, so we definitely missed each other while I was away.
We’ve been in a D/s dynamic for nearly eight years—I’m the Dom and she’s the sub—and our relationship is open and honest. We share everything: desires, fantasies, worries, anxieties, etc. I’m typically the more kinky one and have introduced her to many different things over the years; so far, she has loved every bit of it.
In recent years, I’ve started locking myself up on weekends just for fun. It boosts foreplay throughout the day and usually leads to incredible orgasms for both of us thanks to the built-up tension. While I was away, we had several talks about our relationship’s progression—what she wanted versus what I wanted—which led to a few orders over the last month: some new toys, latex pieces, affordable clothing items, leather cuffs and a collar for me (she already owns her own set), and a custom chastity device.
We are still figuring out the dynamics of her role as my key holder, but it is clear we both want this. Like many others here, she wonders what’s in it for her beyond serving me. I’ve tried to share stories from other key holders about their benefits and even bought her a book on chastity. I’m not an unfeeling dominant or husband; I just express myself less than she’d prefer.
But I think now is the time to show her a bit more. She has a hectic week ahead, having spent most of the weekend preparing for it despite our physical connection. Yesterday, I asked what I could do this week to ease her stress and help things run smoothly at home. Her schedule includes a working dinner on Monday, long days Tuesday and Wednesday, then wrapping up Thursday. All of this is new territory for her role-wise, so she’s more stressed than usual.
My partner handles the daily upkeep of our house: laundry, cleaning, etc. I’ve already started processing my trip laundry, finishing two loads over the weekend with one left to do. I plan to vacuum and dust, plus tackle what I hate most—cleaning the bathrooms. Usually, I cook, but I have some excellent dinners planned for Tuesday and Wednesday.
My strategy is to edge a bit this morning before self-locking and handing her the key when she returns tonight. It’s my first time trying it, but I hope edging beforehand will heighten my horniness (we had a fun weekend with plenty of physical interaction) and fuel my desire to “serve” her all week. I have massage oil ready to warm up this evening for a good rub-down, firewood prepped for the fireplace, and I’m heading out to buy sunflowers—her favorite flower.
Depending on her energy levels, I plan to lick and kiss her, use her wand to bring her several orgasms, then tuck her into bed.
I hope this goes well and demonstrates what a locked dominant husband can offer. Looking forward to the next four days at least in chastity. It’ll be our longest lock-up yet, and I hope it’s just the beginning of many more.