I have a query for the men who regularly go weeks without ejaculating.
My wife and I have been experimenting with chastity for roughly two months. At the beginning, I could only manage 2 or 3 days before the ache became so severe that she would give me “pity sex” to ease the pressure. We’ve gradually extended this to a week; now she can see in my eyes how much discomfort I’m enduring and comes to relieve it for me. To me, that pain is INTENSE! It leaves me barely able to function. Walking with the kids or sitting down to do bookkeeping becomes a struggle.
So, does the intensity of this ache lessen after a day or two? I can’t picture living every single day in such severe discomfort, but it bothers me that my wife feels pressured to have sex just because she sees how much I’m hurting. She has given me some broken orgasms, which do help relieve the pressure, but she doesn’t particularly enjoy doing so. She would rather simply deny.
The pressure drops almost immediately after sex or a broken orgasm, so it’s not entirely due to a poorly fitted device, though I wonder if a custom-fitted metal cage might offer some relief. Are there any men here who can share their experiences on how they endure the ache? Or perhaps insights into reducing that discomfort with a properly fitted custom metal device? Please keep porn-fiction stories out of it. My wife and I are starting to get frustrated with this chastity lifestyle because of this issue, but I do like feeling horny and energized around her, and she loves not having to wash the dishes. Chastity has offered us a relationship balance that we both appreciate, yet neither of us likes how useless I feel when the discomfort peaks. If we can’t resolve this, we might abandon chastity as our method for maintaining that balance. We both want to aim for longer orgasm denial periods, and we need to figure out how to do it. She has made it clear she doesn’t want prostate milking or broken orgasms to be the answer.