I’ve heard that once a lady adapts to chastity, she won’t want it any other way, so I thought I’d inquire. My spouse and I began our chastity journey two years ago. After about eighteen months, I attempted a three-month respite but found myself locked up again after just two weeks because my wife complained that I was pressing for sex too often, and she preferred me when denied orasms. She isn’t particularly fond of the penis to start with and avoids intercourse, so chastity allows her to dictate our sexual schedule rather than mine, sparing us from dealing with my member for extended stretches, sometimes months on end.
She claims she will never revert to how things were before, where I controlled our sex life while she felt guilty about denying me. I understand why she’d want that control over my orgasms. Honestly, when I get a week or two unlocked between those few-month denial periods, I find myself wanting to lock up again. I miss the constant sexual energy I feel. Without being locked, I tend to become sad and bored. Thus, we both prefer not to return to a standard sex life. Has this occurred for you as well?