We are making slow progress with our chastity play, but heading in the right direction. I am now locked up and using several toys to pleasure her. Her favorite of these has a base that works well with a harness.
I’m wearing a Jailbird cage. When I try to get hard, there is some ‘bulging’ above the base ring as well as pressure inside the cage itself. My question is for those who have worn a harness while pleasuring their partner: did it work? I am worried that my attempts at erection might cause issues. (She is still a bit uneasy about me getting hard and worries it might be painful.)
I also wonder about introducing the harness… It wouldn’t be the first time we take steps forward only for me to push too far, causing us to step back again.
Thanks for any thoughts!