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I own a Mature Metal Jailbird and have mentioned before that I’m thinking about switching to one with a smaller base ring. My main worry is this: when the cage comes off, my wife will likely make me stay hard (very hard). If the ring is too small, it can be quite painful for me. What’s the best way to remove both the cage and the ring so that teasing or sex can start before I get overly engorged? Does anyone else deal with this? Currently, my ring is large enough to handle comfortably, and we don’t play like this very often, but I expect that will shift in the near future.