It’s been nearly a decade since I started experimenting with devices that last more than a week and are hard to escape. By nature, I look for the weak points in any setup; if there was an exit, I’d take it, only to regret having escaped. Over these ten years, my wife has held control of the keys—sometimes returning them, other times losing hope that I would truly stay locked up and hand over the key.
I finally gave in and got a custom Stainless steel cage with an A-ring and a Titanium locking PA shackle that passes through the end to secure me inside. This prevents any pulling out. After testing it—confirming even my lock-picking skills couldn’t open it, and proving I could wear it without escape—I brought the idea up to my wife again.
She was hesitant at first, skeptical about whether a device would hold as well as this one has so far. Too many plastic models, even with PA cables, caused skin irritation or broke easily. So she listened while I explained how this specific setup works. We never really agreed on the length of lock-up periods when she holds the keys because previous devices hadn’t been reliable enough to try.
She pointed out that the 30th would be a good target date, and I quickly agreed, though it was actually July 31st. I hadn’t fully calculated the dates, assuming we still had several days left in July… hmmmmm my math wasn’t quite right. Once she confirmed, I checked the calendar again: thirty whole days! I thought three at first. Oh well.
The first week has gone much better than expected; the device is comfortable and functions well. The PA shackle occasionally sticks, but otherwise everything is fine. I have roughly three more weeks before release, and my previous longest wear was 12-14 days (though I did remove it once or twice for cleaning). This feels like a new chapter.
This is something I’ve wanted for ages, and now that it’s here, I’m very happy to say it seems permanent. Currently, we’re aiming for monthly releases, but they can be skipped if desired or needed by her.
Being back in chastity has brought me an unexpected inner peace and renewed enthusiasm for the community boards.