A new twist in the chastity experience: My KH, and loving mother of our two offspring, is “upping the ante” so to speak around chastity. She’s been having challenges with her health, and current birth control methods (pill form). Net result is that a combination of genetics, and her current mix of meds and bc have been causing higher than healthy blood pressure. Lots of ways to change the mix, but given our evolving state of chastity, and highly infrequent PIV orgasms, she has decided (with a newly developed level of assertion, I might add) that taking the BC pills out of the mix, and going “naked” is best. So, now the change in headspace really begins. What was once a limited orgasm game (mixing honor and cage), is now the real thing. Neither of us are looking for more offspring. Condoms and other bc methods can certainly be employed, but neither of us prefer them. So, this game change is both more real, and intense (at least in my head), than prior actions. Teasing, in the form of attention and frequency, is increasing. Denial, in the form of real barriers to entry, has also increased. Leaving me caged seems to be an easier option (why take him out? He’s not going anywhere!). She definitely sees MC in a whole new light, with a real benefit and stress relief than before. So, has anyone else gone down this path as part of chastity, or even the inverse (ended up in chastity because of an inability to do BC)? It’s a new twist, and upping the stakes certainly makes everything more intense. No idle talk of “can I come inside?”. It’s now a commandment, and very much monitored, with significant trust and negative feedback loops. In some ways, this is very much a ‘be careful what you wish for” scenario…providing a healthier “place to be” for my KH is comforting - taking away the awkward choice of a cocktail of meds and BC pills to some point of equilibrium. Our prior chastity work has amassed a collection of toys and techniques that makes her orgasms an easy path, and mine easier to abstain. But it is an interesting, and evolving “headspace” to be…my next PIV orgasm might be a long, long way out there. Anyone else in this avenue of the MC roadmap?
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