Hi everyone! I’m slut d, and although I’ve been lurking around here for a few weeks now, this is my first post! My girlfriend/keyholder, Goddess B, and I have been together 3 years now, and have just begun to experiment with chastity in the last month or so. I think it’s fair to say we’ve been enjoying ourselves so far (particularly her!), but since we’re newbies in need of a little guidance we decided to purchase Lucy Fairbourne’s book for Goddess to read through. This afternoon she decided that I needed to start a chastity journal, and since I’d skimmed through some of those posted here, I thought this would be as good a place as any to keep mine. A bit about our backgrounds: My background in kink goes all the way back to puberty, when I had an unconventional first orgasm to say the least. Remember those pens that wiggled when you wrote, resulting in wavy penmanship? Well let’s just say I discovered I enjoyed the vibration, and one day secured the pen to myself and wrapped myself in a futon mattress (partially to muffle the noise, and partially to increase the pressure/vibration). Within a few minutes, I began to feel waves of pleasure rush over me, and soon thereafter I came as I struggled against the mattress. I certainly didn’t understand the kinkiness of what I’d done at the time, and after that night I began to masturbate in a more traditional manner. It wasn’t until years later that I stumbled upon a BDSM website and everything (to be cliché) just fell into place. My kinks have been evolving ever since. Goddess B, I think it’s fair to say, was pretty vanilla when we met. She enjoyed sex, no doubt, but BDSM was foreign to her and she was somewhat intimidated to learn of some of my kinks. As our relationship has developed, she’s become comfortable with a lot of things, and it seems chastity play in particular has really clicked with her. She seems to love the fact that she can now get the romantic, doting boyfriend of our first months anytime she desires. And while I think I may annoy her at times with my pent-up horniness, she certainly loves all the massages, bubble baths, and other services [Image: wink.gif] she has me providing! I’m not sure whether she’ll choose to post here or not, but she’ll certainly be reading, and I’m sure she’d enjoy the input of some of the other Goddesses in the forum! I think that’s all for now, but in the next few days I hope to share the details of our first experiences with chastity!
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