Female led relationships discussion

Hello, Our adventure is moving along nicely. I appreciate everyone who has left comments on my earlier threads. The question of how long to keep him in his lock comes up often, so I’m sure it’s been asked countless times. We are starting fresh with better insight; previously, the longest he lasted was just a couple of months. Suggestions I’ve read indicate at least 3 months is needed. My current plan is to keep him locked from now until Christmas, and then start next year by allowing him up to twelve orgasms throughout the coming year. He can take these whenever he wishes (provided he has behaved), but once those 12 are used, that’s all there is. He may request one early if needed; however, if his behavior hasn’t been quite right, he might have to wait a bit longer. Naturally, I decide the timing and manner of these releases. This approach keeps things somewhat mysterious for him while reminding him to spend them wisely. What does everyone else think? Best wishes Leanne