I’m just getting started with this end of the dynamic, new to being on top—I’m actually a switch. I feel like my natural path is topping men while submitting to women.
My toy and I began with text-only communication. He would send photos as proof that he was obeying my commands. The blue notification chime I had set for him was enough to get me going, especially if it chimed in the middle of the day at random times. I hope those surprise texts sparked a reaction from him too.
Our first real session lasted 37 days of chastity. I owned his next orgasm while I tracked mine—counting them up each time we played and whenever I masturbated because I was horny thinking about him, or when I was with my husband (we are happily non-monogamous).
Then came the gift: he got to wear my cage. He started sending more photos, getting bolder by sharing short video clips of himself obeying my requests or just goofing around.
Last night we did our first live session via video feed. It was HOT knowing that he was edging for me, but it was 100x hotter watching him do it!
I know the limits of virtual play—I am seriously looking forward to our first in-person meeting! He has a few toys I make him use on himself, but I want to mix things up. So, the floor is open: give me ideas for what I can do to him, or have him do to himself.
Thank you!
- Please note: my toy will be reading this thread, so if you have a really devilish idea, maybe send me a PM so he doesn’t see it! maniacal laughter