As these things often do, some intriguing questions have surfaced. Some time ago, my partner made it clear to me that unless she changes her mind—using those precise words … this current period of denial will stretch beyond a year but likely stay under two. The subsequent one will be significantly longer…probably. Yesterday she reminded me of this and asked how I felt about being both locked up and denied for at least the next four months, knowing that every day when I wake (or more precisely, when her penis in its cage wakes me), I won’t be able to achieve a full erection. It’s extremely unlikely I’ll ejaculate and almost certain I won’t have an orgasm. She added that I will of course probably remain locked for longer than just those four months …almost definitely. Her next question was completely unexpected. If I were to unlock you today and allow you to reach your climax this close to the one-year mark of being controlled by me, would you feel disappointed or not about missing out on that short-term goal? Would that make the Drop more difficult? We talked it over for a bit before she asked: Would you consider having an orgasm at any point now, with less than 12 months left in the year, as a good thing or a bad one? Keep in mind we have discussed and agreed that permanent denial takes away too much power from the KH. She followed up her earlier questions with this one. Instead of having an orgasm before the full year is complete, what would your reaction be if I told you I’d guarantee you will reach the full 12 months IF you ask me to start a period of Indefinite denial today? My answers are between us here. I’m just passing them along; I am not asking for anything myself. I thought they were worth considering. Take what you want from it. It brings up another question for me, one that perhaps I’ll share at another time. One that I certainly don’t have enough appropriate experience to answer yet.
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