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Hi, I’m a male aged 43. I have been married to an incredible woman for 15 years. About three years ago, I introduced my wife to the concept of wearing a chastity cage. She accepted it gracefully and quickly began enjoying all the perks of having her husband’s cock locked away and abstaining from masturbation. Once I explained everything about the device and why I needed one, she fully agreed that it would be perfect for keeping me sexually available at any moment. My wife is not only attractive but also very smart; right away, she asked if I was certain about asking her to take control. She noted there was no going back because she realized this would become quite interesting and addictive. Once I handed over the key, she had no intention of giving it back. I promised never to complain or request release. My wife has always possessed a dominant nature but hadn’t fully embraced the power she held over me. When we started using the cage three years ago, I also discussed this aspect of her dominance with her. She admitted that while she knew she was naturally dominant towards me, it didn’t feel entirely comfortable to her initially. I told her that this dynamic is a huge turn-on for me and that I’ve always loved receiving her orders and directions. She acknowledged that controlling me comes naturally but hadn’t really reflected on it before. When I mentioned that I sensed she enjoyed taking charge in our relationship, she became emotional. So, she admitted to being more accepting of her dominant role now. Over the last three years, she has evolved completely and is more dominant than ever. For the past two years, I have handled most household chores. She also knows about my foot and shoe fetish; whenever she leaves or returns home, I am responsible for her shoes and boots. I help put them on her feet and take them off, as well as keeping them clean at all times. I love it! During the first year, she had me wear a chastity cage for 3 to 4 days at a time with breaks of one to two weeks occasionally. In the second year, I wore it for 6 to 7 days with shorter breaks of 3 to 5 days. Last year, it was similar: 6 to 7 days on, followed by a 2-day break. Then in December, she announced that she would keep me locked up longer because she felt my daily routine lacked stability and noted I had been masturbating occasionally. So, since December 18th, 2018, I have remained caged. We still have sex, but she locks me back up immediately afterward. I am slowly coming to terms with the fact that I can no longer masturbate freely. By the way, I take this seriously and won’t try to escape or fiddle around on my own. However, my wife finds it amusing to tease me just to watch me get worked up. Oh yes, I also enjoy dressing in sexy materials like latex, leather, high heels…I’m a closet bisexual who enjoys travestying. That’s where things stand now. I’ve left out some details, so please feel free to ask if you have questions.