I have managed to go three weeks without an orgasm on a few occasions. My wife has slowly led me there and hopes for four weeks this round. Her target is at least two months. This isn’t about D/s dynamics, so she won’t just command me to do what I dislike; I need to want it myself. I do want it, though my body feels like it’s going to explode if I don’t have an orgasm soon.
Her perspective is that after I cum, she endures a week of moody behavior from me. Then another two weeks pass while she works to get me horny enough so her teasing becomes enjoyable again. During the first couple of weeks, she has to work hard just to get me erect, let alone reach the point where I might orgasm. When it starts becoming fun for her, I often bail out. She argues that if I can’t last longer, it isn’t worth all that extra effort on her part compared to getting her enjoyment.
I see where she is coming from and do wish to extend my time because I love seeing how happy she gets when I practically jump out of my skin the first time she touches me after about two weeks. Currently, she has left it up to me; if I beg for an orgasm on Saturday night, she will allow it without any hard feelings toward our game. However, I want to stay locked longer because I love her and enjoy seeing her joy as she teases me.
My struggle is figuring out how to handle the sexual frustration. My mind gets consumed by sex after those initial two weeks have passed. It didn’t help that my wife just walked in asking me to dry her off post-shower and then lock up, since she will be out late tonight.
Any advice? I’ve tried staying busy with other activities, but the feeling of extreme horniness always returns. Posts here suggest this sensation is desirable. While I enjoy it, finding ways to endure longer periods has been tough for me. One extra week seems manageable in theory, but my body feels like it’s screaming for release.
Help?