Where do I start? A few years back, the concept of chastity caught my attention. At first, it seemed like a good way to manage my high libido. But I didn’t actually do anything about it right away. Then I met up with my current girlfriend; she leans heavily into being submissive, while I’m more of a switch who usually takes on the dominant role.
After spending some time dominating her in bed, I decided I wanted to flip roles and try submission myself. One day, she mentioned wanting me to wear a chastity device because of that high sex drive, so I thought it was the perfect opportunity. We did a few trial runs before attempting an 8-day lock up while she was away coming back home. I really enjoyed handing over control and felt this was how I wanted to explore my submissive nature. Plus, when she returned, I got two days of dominating her!:D.
We’ve since done lock ups occasionally, slowly making them longer. I want to do it more often, but because she’s a sub at heart, we have to make sure the mood is right for her. The one issue I’ve faced is that she hasn’t pushed me quite as hard as I’d like, so sometimes I end up taking control again (topping from below). What I really wanted was someone who would push my boundaries and truly help me submit.
This brings us to now. My girlfriend’s best friend already knew we were into chastity play and used to tease me about it, which I found thrilling. So I asked if she’d be interested in controlling my lock up, and she agreed. In a sense, I have two keyholders: my girlfriend is here for the teasing, while her best friend holds the power over my next release. It’s still early days in this trial, but it seems to be going well so far. I’m curious what happens when the best friend decides it’s time to really amp up the teasing.