Hi there. I’m new here and have been browsing posts about cages, specifically how to manage daily life while wearing one. My girlfriend and I will soon be talking about what articles might help her understand the female perspective on chastity—women living in it with belts and cages—which is where I come from.
She’s open to reading up and discussing our situation regarding cages and belts. I’ve begun researching them myself and plan to include her fully as we go deeper. As mentioned in my initial post, my experience has been the reverse of what some might expect: I was introduced to chastity first, which worked out well for us. Although it’s been a while since I last lived that way, discussing our future life together under these constraints is new ground for her. However, she is willing to take this step.
I’ve received excellent advice here regarding how to start and involve her in different aspects of this lifestyle. It is important to me that we have total participation from both sides, but I also recognize the need to give us each time and space to adjust. I will keep these insights in mind not only for our upcoming discussion but as we navigate this path together. The guidance on pacing ourselves realistically and letting days pass naturally was particularly helpful.
Thank you all for your wise counsel.