Just Locked In It Happened Quickly

I might be jumping around in my first couple of posts while I get everything organized, since this is all pretty new to me for now. My wife L and I have been together fourteen years so far and were mostly vanilla during that time. About a year back, I stumbled upon chastity and got interested, but wasn’t sure how or if I should bring it up with L because I worried about her reaction. I’ve spent time lurking here reading journey threads, almost deciding I’d never mention it to her. But by pure chance, the topic came up and within a week, I was locked. We went on vacation last week, and like many of you might know, our sex life goes into overdrive when we travel and stay in hotels. Sometimes if we have a quickie during the day, I’ll tell her to just focus on herself while she handles me later that night since my refractory period is strong and I usually need until the next day before going again. Anyway, we were enjoying our session and somehow she mentioned not letting me cum yet. I teased her about liking control too much (she really does like being in charge over many parts of our lives; she always has the TV remote, picks out house decor, and honestly I don’t care enough to push back), then asked what would happen if I didn’t listen. She said those magic words: maybe she should cage me. I truly think she had no idea I knew about chastity already, so it was just a coincidence. I told her absolutely yes to caging me if that excites her. Our trip ran Sunday to Sunday and I believe the locking happened Tuesday night. Needless to say, I stayed denied for the rest of the vacation except one night when she wanted photos of her chest covered in cum; so I taught her about a ruined orgasm and did it for the picture. During the week, there was lots of dirty talk about things we could add with a cage—some made me think she’s done this before or seen it online, though I don’t think she watches porn much or visits that part of the internet; maybe she’s just naturally intuitive. She knows I like when she wears revealing clothes in public and shows off some skin, so there was even talk about going to a beach where topless sunbathing is allowed, letting people stare while I’m locked up beside her. She suggested ordering a cage for after we returned home. We had family staying at our house during the trip, and I worried flight delays might mean they’d get mail before it arrived, so I waited until landing Sunday night to order. I bought an inexpensive plastic one from Amazon as a trial (linked below for reference; hope links are okay here) scheduled for delivery Tuesday morning. Since work is remote, I finished Sunday and Monday nights because “this was your last time for awhile.” When the package arrived early Tuesday afternoon, I locked up and texted her to let her know. Here’s how my week went: Tuesday - cage stayed on; L pushed my head down multiple times while she got several O’s using a dildo Wednesday - Again had my head shoved down for quite some time. Then she unlocked me briefly and rode me, but instructed I must not cum or be locked up longer without access to her body (visually or tactilely). After getting close enough to panic and push away, I was relocked; she mentioned planning not to remove it again for a couple of days. Thursday - cage stayed on mostly ignored by her while still satisfying her needs Tonight - It’s now L’s decision so we’ll see what she plans next! Final thoughts: I can’t believe how quickly we went from never discussing this in our whole relationship to me being locked nearly 24/7 right away. Right now, thrilled and unable to keep my hands off of her; she enjoys every bit. For now, I still hold the keys since everything is new and I want to ensure no issues arise, but L made it clear that once things settle down, she will have a key while I store another in a 3d printed sealed box as an emergency backup so she’ll know if I’ve used it. Also figuring out the best cage setup; don’t want spending too much yet in case novelty fades and we stop doing this. The current plastic one works mostly fine for me since I’m a grower with flaccid size varying greatly throughout the day. Usually fills it well but sometimes cold or bending over causes retraction leading to wedging against bars near where head meets shaft, requiring use of qtip nudging back out again. Also paranoid people notice bulges publicly; yes they probably aren’t looking hard but between those concerns ordered a cobra nano from lockthecock arriving soon. One worry about going smaller: my scrotum hangs low most times so trying to get erect inside pulls away leaving room for movement with shorter cages pulling further until running out of scrotal space lol. That’s where things stand now; excited seeing future developments! … =UTF8&th=1