FinlandLocked How chastity helps motivate men to get things done

I have been experimenting with and wearing cages intermittently since 2003. I’ve tried many different styles, all made of plastic. I work in a factory that has security gates for detecting steel. The years passed quickly but nothing major happened regarding lockdowns until my second wife came along. We started locking me up as a fun activity, and it evolved into longer periods in the cage about three years ago. I have had it on for nearly three months at maximum duration, which wasn’t too bad. I enjoyed that time. We do a lot of renovating both inside and outside our house; one place got ready so we sold it, and now the second one is under renovation, making it easy to be caged. I like the “Cellmate guardian” cage; it’s plastic but very robust. It has been on me for two weeks since my latest release. But most importantly for us, wearing a cage means that after orgasm I become lazy and selfish for a few days. It isn’t just sitting on the couch; I lose my drive to do things and neglect taking care of my wife as I should after an orgasm. So we both see all benefits of me staying in a cage. For long periods. I can’t predict how long this time will last, but it looks like I won’t be unlocked for quite a while… We just started renovating our little traditional Finnish sauna house located about 25 meters from the main house, so I guess this renovation might almost be ready before I have a chance to get out. But I’m fine with that; even though I know it is not just a quick makeover. It’s a major renovation. Last night we were in that sauna, perhaps for the last time before it becomes unusable because everything will be under construction. -But we had some fun moments regarding my cage time related to this sauna getting ready faster so I can get out sooner. And last night was really the first night when I felt truly proud and happy to be in a cage as our goals happen quicker. It was a strange feeling, but at the same time very motivating. I don’t know how often I will write here, since it’s just me “only” wearing a cage for such a long time, but sharing good feelings would be nice?