Welcome! Newcomers should read this.

Hello! Perhaps you found this community through a chance search, or maybe your usual spot is temporarily unavailable. Either way, it’s fine; we’re all seeking connection. The founders of this board are individuals interested in talking about the everyday reality of chastity, the devices themselves, and denying orgasm. We wanted to create space for technical discussions, emotional challenges, strategies for getting partners involved (or showing off when they do), and other facets of living with these desires. Crucially, we aimed for an environment where our partners could participate comfortably, particularly those who lean toward more conventional tastes. This means keeping BDSM elements and some extreme kinks at bay. Newcomers are free to explore any fetish that appeals to them. We aren’t hostile to specific fetishes; rather, as adults (mostly), we expect adult interaction. We converse like grown-ups and prefer others to treat us the same way. We share knowledge and experiences without demanding special treatment or constant catering to our preferences. We generally avoid “playing” up each other’s fantasies here, which distinguishes us from some other forums. If you seek people who will actively play along with your persona, you might feel let down—or even slighted. Conversely, if you value mature dialogue about actual issues and experiences related to chastity or similar kinks, you’ll find plenty of that. We don’t all share every interest held by the group, but we honor everyone’s right to enjoy their own specific preference. However, respecting your unique taste doesn’t mean you can expect us to join in on it with you. To put it simply: please feel welcome here, just don’t assume others will immerse themselves fully in your particular fantasy.