I realize this is primarily a forum dedicated to male chastity, so my question might seem unusual, but I could use your guidance.
For the first time ever, I will be undergoing a full month of locking beginning January 1st, 2014. My wife mentioned that during February, I can release myself whenever I choose for the entire month, and she would like to attempt staying without orgasms herself for one month as well. It isn’t about her becoming my slave; it’s simply about maintaining abstinence from orgasm, which might help build excitement.
I have to admit I need to discipline myself not to touch her during that time, even though I am permitted to cum. Furthermore, if she needs to get aroused without releasing, I believe we should avoid PIV for that month as well, meaning she will rely on hands or mouth stimulation for the duration.
I also considered a system where I count her orgasms in January and subtract half of my ruined ones (counting each ruin as 0.5), allowing me an equivalent number of free cumming sessions in February. Currently, being allowed to cum doesn’t feel particularly enjoyable to me personally. However, denying her entirely feels wrong when she is the one bearing the brunt…
What are your thoughts? Is this a good plan? Has anyone tried something similar?