Let me share a bit of my background. I’ve been crossdressing since the age of eleven. My first wife knew, and after our divorce, I told another girlfriend; I started dressing during times when I wasn’t at work. My current spouse discovered it before we tied the knot while catching me dressed and active online. She accepted two things: Over the last few years, she’s complained that there isn’t enough passion because I masturbate every day. Last October, following one of our arguments, I decided to take action. I ordered a Bon 4 chastity device. I wanted to test it out first—making sure I could wear it and even sleep in it—which began on November 7th. I kept the cage on for the remainder of that month. Her birthday is December 19th, but on December 2nd, I handed her the keys and wished her a happy birthday. She asked what they were for, and I told her she would discover their purpose at the right time. Two weeks later, while we were in bed, she grabbed me and noticed something underneath. After showing it to her and explaining everything—mentioning that over a month had passed—I described how holding the key allowed her to control my orgasms. She seemed alright with it but not overly enthusiastic, treating it somewhat like a game. However, she began teasing me more often, having me please her, until eventually, she was completely on board.
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