Longest I have done, eleven weeks, agreed with my partner in advance. I had spent about the last month of it thinking of almost nothing else.
The actual event was over almost immediately and felt like considerably less than the fortnight before it. She was lovely about it, I was quietly gutted, and then I felt ridiculous for being gutted about something I had chosen.
Does this happen to everyone? Is eleven weeks just too long to be pointed at one moment?