Greetings all! I just registered today and am new to this community. I’m a male submissive in my mid-40s, happily married for 17 years. While my wife has known about my submissive nature for ages, she hasn’t been particularly dominant. Lately, though, I’ve shown interest in chastity play, which has opened her mind more than before. Over the last few months, I’ve taught her gradually and even had her act as a reluctant key holder for short stretches, like a couple of days. Sometimes I can go about two weeks without an orgasm, but it’s usually self-controlled on my end.
I’ve asked her to control when I climax; she doesn’t mind the idea but tends to give in too quickly. I’d love more teasing from her—she does it some nights and mornings—but it lacks consistency. She often feels guilty and grants permission far too readily.
Her attitude is shifting slightly, yet convincing her to learn more (perhaps by reading books or blogs on chastity, tease, denial, etc.) has been tricky.
Any advice on how I can speed this up? Sub Len