Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Greetings everyone, this is a new discussion started because of a recent shift in my wife’s approach to our chastity routine. Before now, I and this good woman have been engaging in play for roughly five years, with my longest period being three weeks. The typical duration was between a few days and a week, which served as lighthearted fun. Additionally, she forbade me from wearing the device to work since that three-week session ended a couple of years ago. We (primarily I) have talked about long-term chastity and its implications, with a tentative plan for a three-month trial where I get release approximately once a week depending on good behavior. The change in my conduct is really significant to my dear wife because that’s what she desires. Yes, we always ask why you can’t just do it without the cage (our general term for any device). While we were on vacation (I had been locked for several days prior and could be let out if suitable), she brought this up again so I did some online searching and found a well-written blog with a chemical analysis of male and female orgasm changes. To me, it explained things clearly, which is why I thought she might find it useful. Because her back was hurting from the bed during our trip, she advised that there was no chance for me to get out while we were away, so I countered in a mood of goodwill: “That’s fine, I will do whatever you want with no restrictions.” So I spent the rest of the holiday locked up and we generally had a wonderful time. I did everything I would have done without the cage (except cumming naturally). This included swimming with the kids and visiting activity centers, etc., all I really needed to do was be careful since our play is mostly just between us two. Anyway, when we returned home she said she wanted to consider keeping me caged for a while and would work out a plan over the next few days. I gave her a copy of the blog post which she decided was very helpful. So after four weeks of chastity she announced her plan: For six months starting from that day, one time out per month with a mini review after six months. Afterward, there will be a fuller review with plans to move to quarterly releases and possibly longer periods thereafter. I was stunned; I thought it would be weekly or something after the first month, but no, it is monthly with the initial month lasting six weeks. If I behave well, I get out this weekend when we go on our boat trip, then back in for a month. There are also several other rules as follows: If I do not behave, she will have me waxed anywhere and possibly everywhere from my neck down. She can also increase my lock duration, likely by months though that isn’t confirmed yet. I do get release to clean weekly but only to clean (I think this is much harder because it requires willpower). I must wear whatever underwear she asks for and whatever nightwear she wants, so for the last month I have mostly worn g-strings during the days and a leotard with shorts at night since she loves the feel of these. That’s pretty much up to date. For information purposes, I am wearing a CB6000 now with a new device on order. For the first couple of weeks I just felt randy; the feeling shifted to stressed or wound-up, but that sensation seems to be fading and I feel quite calm really. I will see what happens in the future, though I don’t necessarily expect quarterly releases or longer periods yet. Who knows? I just know that since I have badgered her about this for years and placed my love under total control, I must wait and see. I will keep you posted. By the way, my partner is very vanilla; although I enjoy femdom, she isn’t particularly into it, but this is a major step forward for her. So that old saying is sooooo true: Beware of what you wish for.