My future or current Kh isn’t as keen on chastity gadgets as I am. One reason is her belief that she picks up bladder infections when we have intercourse shortly after the device has been taken off. It’s true that cystitis does happen post-coitus, but I doubt the gadget itself is responsible. Does anyone else face this? My current model is a Watchful Mistress, which sits more closed than something like the Jailbird yet remains less restrictive than a CB-3/6K.
Her second concern revolves around me wearing the apparatus in public. Since we both work professional jobs within a tight-knit town, she frets over our standing if I needed an emergency trip to the hospital with it still on. Wearing the thing part-time isn’t exactly convenient, but I’ve made clear that I won’t let fear of a rare event dictate my life. Moreover, even if people spot it, who cares? My view is that many folks keep their own hidden habits, and this fits right in. Still, she remains opposed to the concept.