She recently let me have an orgasm. I loved it - OBVIOUSLY - but there wasn’t that wow factor because I realized she had to do it under our agreement either that day or the next, and since she usually avoids sex two days in a row, it was almost certainly happening on that first day. So no surprise, which seems quite important. After pondering this for a week, I proposed changing the deal so there would be no limit on how long she could deny me, ensuring always some element of surprise. She didn’t answer right away. Last night, however, she hinted she’d prefer to return to normal sex where I get an orgasm after hers. It appears she disliked the one-sided nature of it. I understand; I enjoy giving her pleasure just as much as she enjoys giving me mine. The idea of unlimited denial probably made her realize she wasn’t fully happy with that setup.
So we are back to normal, except she might occasionally tell me no when asking for an orgasm after hers. That works for me. Our brief stint in chastity fixed some issues I had, and if I fall back into old ways, she could put me back in my place with a few weeks of it again. Jimi123, hope you’re reading - don’t worry that chastity always means sissification, submission, or cuckolding.