Greetings to everyone here… whether you call yourselves Chastity Mansioners, Mansionites, or maybe even ‘Mansionese.’ In any case, hello.
I am a man in an FD relationship and have been for quite some time. I’ve also practiced BDSM for ages—since my teenage years, though I won’t specify exactly when that was yet. The device being used here is her will made manifest. We haven’t found anything completely secure other than the grave itself, so we’ve decided not to waste money, time, patience, sanity, and more on chasing perfection. Still, a reminder helps me stay true, so she gives me something to wear around my cock and/or testicles all day. I must admit it does help. Knowing that no practical device is 100% secure, I often wonder how long until we get bio-electronic options. Something wired into a subject’s sexual neural pathways in the spinal cord. If the link between genitals and brain is cut off there, sex drive or pleasure would cease. Conversely, connecting to the right nerves could let natural responses happen, or trigger them beyond what the person can control. Picture it: as a Dominant Woman, you can quickly isolate male sexual phases and pick only those you desire, whenever you want. Arousal. Erection. Orgasm. Ejaculation. Assuming such a system arrives in the future, the potential is huge for Dominants, while it might be intimidating for submissives. Let’s imagine this device could be controlled wirelessly by a Mistress. Unless she switches on the sexual response nerves in her male subject, he cannot have an erection, orgasm, or any pleasure at all. The penis would lack its normal function. But if she decides he needs an erection—one that holds until she is finished—it’s just a matter of finding the wireless remote and pressing the right button. Or perhaps there’ll be an iPhone app for it. Maybe her sub isn’t allowed to climax for six months at a time, but she worries about his prostate health. Setting up a full ejaculation without the pleasure of orgasm, could be simple enough—a no fuss, no muss affair. Maybe it could be scheduled for a specific day and month each year. He just needs to be home and prepared when the moment comes. Alternatively, maybe she wants him to enjoy an orgasm after all. It’s the same quick process, just yielding a different outcome. Or as punishment, it might trigger while he is at work the next day. Exactly when, he won’t know. This serves as both threat and motivator for quick compliance. And for those who practice Tease and Denial, or enjoy Ruined Orgasms…well, this would change everything. Is this just idle fantasy? Well, partly yes, but also no. There is precedent suggesting this capability is inevitable. Whether the tech gets adopted specifically for BDSM purposes is another matter entirely, but I believe it’s only a question of time. This weekend there’s a TV show exploring these possibilities. It follows three middle-aged women who struggle to climax and their researcher, who helps them by stimulating specific nerves correctly via an implant in their spinal cord connected to an electronic unit. *It airs on Discovery Health here in the US, Sunday June 27, 2010 at 10:00 am Central Time. The title is “Electric Love”. * I watched this program years ago, around 2005?, so it won’t be cutting-edge from a 2010 perspective. I’m not sure if the show reaches viewers in the UK, where many members live, because two of the women are British, so maybe it does. So, how was that for an opening post? Did it spark anyone’s imagination? subjected2