Here’s some context. During my engagement to marry my wife, I wanted a gesture of devotion that went beyond the typical band. I considered wearing an ordinary cock ring permanently, perhaps engraved with her name or phrased like “this cock belongs to Michelle.” While researching this option, I started taking the idea of a chastity device seriously, even though it was completely new territory for me.
As a younger man, I worried that sexual encounters with women would lead to rapid ejaculation. To counter this, I learned how to delay my climax until it became the only method I could use effectively. Since stopping masturbation, however, my speed has changed; where continuous stroking once took 15-20 minutes for me to reach completion, now it happens in roughly 3-4 minutes. My wife appreciates this change and hopes to restore that youthful energy of a teenage boy who couldn’t control his cock and would shoot quickly.
The core question is: she wants to train my speed so I finish faster and faster. Has anyone else experienced similar training? What methods or techniques could be useful?
Thank you!