Does anyone else here practice chastity without using a belt or physical device? My wife has control over my orgasms (I’m not even permitted to cum during sex unless she gives the go-ahead), and we rely completely on trust. I promise never to orgasm without her specific permission, and despite feeling frustrated at times, I stick to it. On this basis alone, I’ve stayed without an orgasm for several months.
We haven’t tried a device yet, and the issues others report with them tend to deter me. However, I am still drawn to the concept; hearing that padlock click into place is quite appealing! By wearing a steel cock ring most of the time, I get one of the main benefits devices offer: a constant reminder of my status. This also allows my wife to tease me better because I become very sensitive just thinking about a kiss or touch anywhere on my body (or hers).
I’d love to hear how others find deviceless chastity and whether it compares well with being locked up if you’ve tried both.
Best regards, David