I’m a total beginner. I’d only known my boyfriend for a few months when, right before we went camping, he gave me the key! Honestly, even though I thought of myself as pretty experienced in life, I’d never heard about male chastity or cages and was completely stunned when he quickly showed it to me while wearing it! Not wanting to make any mistakes back then, I nervously took the keys but admit my head was spinning and I wondered what exactly I had gotten into… That was three years ago now, and I can tell you that man is one of the most loving, generous, and caring people on earth. He’s now my husband, an incredible stepfather, and a dad to our own child. The last few years have been entirely devoted to our children, family, and building our business, which consumes at least 16 hours every day. Sadly we’ve realized that the price of success is our personal relationship, which has faded from neglect. Now I know my husband is a complex and special person. Sex for him must be as much mental as physical, and I’ve decided to accept his challenge to help him reach his potential. We’d often talked about chastity but have finally jumped in. Yesterday I put him into the metal spiral with the keys hidden by me and set a release date just 10 days out. I want to take him away from everyday life so he can experience the best orgasm ever, then lock him back up with those memories to keep him straining against his bars.
Could any of you offer tips to help? Other than giving him a stinging bottom, I don’t want to hurt him physically, but I really want to get this right to maximize the experience.
I’d be very grateful for your thoughts. Gj x