I was just curious how many other people aren’t locked in all day, every day and are sticking to the honor system? My wife (Mistress S) doesn’t keep me lock 24/7 but she does enjoy putting a cage on me occasionally. What I never thought possible years ago, I no longer want to masturbate to orgasm. For years, I spent many hours masturbating and orgasming while watching porn, but since we moved into an FLR dynamic, my desire has dropped to zero. She has conditioned me to want and NEED to focus all of my attention on her instead of jacking off to porn. She teases me mercilessly almost every day yet never allows a proper orgasm. Once a month, she gives me a ruined one (yes fully ruined) just to empty me out. She told me that I “may” have an orgasm at Christmas as a gift.. If not, then next summer for our anniversary or my birthday. She explained it is good for my own well-being because, like most men, I lose the submissive edge and it takes days to get me back there. And she is right of course! Last night I was lucky enough to have a ruined one by her lovely hand and right after that all I could do was beg to ravish her and bring her full pleasure. After all these years together, I thanked her for training me to desire her and please her instead of wasting my time masturbating just to reach orgasm with porn. I thanked her for ruining my orgasm and only allowing my body to empty the semen rather than shooting it out forcefully. She has explained that this will remain our way and W/we are much happier because of it. My love for Her is deeper and stronger than ever before. I’m always begging to touch and please her.. which when denied, is the worst part.. Like a gut punch. Being denied pleasing her body, to me at this point, feels so much worse than not having an orgasm. So, while I am not locked 24/7, I am in what I call invisible chastity.. And W/we love it. Is anyone else going through this type of situation? Trained to not want or need to reach that final orgasm and ejaculate?
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I am in much the same boat. I am approaching six months without a full orgasm. In these last six months, Mistress has milked me two times and allowed for two ruined opportunities. I love her even more now. Our next step will be getting a cage fitted. Then I will never be able to touch what is hers as property. Only Mstress will have that opportunity. I adore her so much. Like you, the orgasm belongs to her. She decides when her boy next reaches climax. I am entirely hers.
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