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Hello, This is my first time posting; I’ve mostly been lurking here for a while, but something exciting and slightly nerve-wracking happened today that made me want to share. (Edit: apologies if this turns out long) I have dabbled with various kinks as I slowly drift toward chastity, and honestly, nothing has clicked quite like it is doing right now. I discovered this side of myself by watching porn and reading those captions about being locked up. Fast forward to a couple of months ago when I suddenly brought it up to my wife. It came out of nowhere, and I don’t think she fully grasped what was going on at first. Still, she is affectionate and open-minded enough to try new things, so I went ahead and ordered a CB-6000S. When the device arrived, I couldn’t wait to put it in, but I realize now that I got too eager and didn’t take proper care with fitting it correctly. On top of that, I hadn’t communicated well enough with my wife yet; within 24 hours, the cage slipped out, leaving me with sore spots while she granted a release. Afterward, the device went into our “play time” box where it sat idle for about a month. After that underwhelming start, I kind of forgot about it until browsing those captions again reignited my interest. So I quietly got to know the cage better, practicing putting it on and taking it off while working out the best ring and spacer setup for me. I also worked on how to explain things more clearly to her. Meanwhile, she had mentioned the device casually once or twice, so at least I knew she wasn’t totally against the idea. Feeling a bit shy about bringing it up again—not always my strong suit—I hesitated until this weekend when I showed her a selection of captions that really helped convey exactly what gets me excited about being locked. I scoured the internet and saved probably over 100 captions that resonated with me, eventually narrowing them down to around fifteen. These were less vulgar or graphic but captured the general gist, including several that highlighted how chastity could benefit her too. On Sunday evening, I brought up the topic again and had her look through the images. She was willing to give it another shot because she found the concept interesting, even if not fully enthusiastic yet. We agreed to try it until Wednesday, so back on went the device (with me guiding her). It stayed locked with a plastic tag since we didn’t have the proper lock handy. By Monday evening, although I was pleased and attentive, our weekend activities had been limited, so by normal standards, I felt quite pent up. By Tuesday, my efforts seemed genuine enough that she started to comment on it. Wednesday arrived this evening. I offered her a massage because her neck had been hurting, which turned into one with a happy ending for her. Then she tied me down and teased me while the cage was still on, making me beg for relief as she took her time cleaning each part of the device alongside occasional strokes. She cranked up the intensity with very slow movements, bringing me to the edge multiple times. Then, to my surprise and dread, she said, “I never specified which Wednesday you’re staying locked until, did I?” Back on went the cage as a second surprise: she pulled out the original lock that came with it because she wasn’t keen on keeping everything secured by just a plastic tag. Even more surprisingly, an unknown combination lock box appeared from nowhere—the keys disappeared into it quickly (to my knowledge, we didn’t have one before). Throughout all of this, she seemed to be enjoying hearing me groan and complain. When I asked when the cage would finally come off, she replied, “I know but I’m not telling you.” This is a new side of her that I hadn’t seen much of before, leaving me simultaneously thrilled and anxious. Now having calmed down enough to realize I’m actually enjoying my situation, I checked in on whether she was also happy with the arrangement. She said yes with a big smile. Then I asked if going without “real sex” (PIV) would bother her much. Her response? Not really. I reminded her we do have that cock sleeve option available; she nodded but added that it wouldn’t necessarily be our regular excuse to let me out. Not sure whether to count my blessings or start panicking!:) It was very cathartic. I’ll keep you updated. TLDR: After communicating my desires through captions, my wife tried chastity again and seems to be embracing it; what started as an unlock day became a tease-and-denial session with no set date for release.