Introductions discussion

Hello everyone: I have looked into chastity a bit and I am eager to give it a shot. My goal right now is getting my wife on board with the idea. We are pretty traditional as of now. Do you have any advice? I sent her a Kindle book about it for her to read, and I’ve drafted an example contract below. Male Chastity Contract This pact is entered into by_____________________________(Wife) and ____________________________(Husband). We start with a 90-day trial period, followed by a one-year term that we both agree on. Understanding The marriage between wife and husband is strong and full of love. Both parties are receptive to each other’s ideas for adding spice to our bedroom life through experimentation. Keeping this in mind, the husband recognizes: A. His wish to be dominated by his Wife. B. His desire to give her total control over his genitals, orgasms, and sexual activities by wearing a chastity device under her direction. The wife acknowledges these desires and agrees to: A. Dominate him sexually and take charge of his cock and balls. B. Require the husband to wear a chastity device so he can better focus on their relationship, stop masturbating, and curb bad habits around the house. Rules A. The wife is in command; she owns her husband’s cock and balls, as well as his orgasms and sexual satisfaction. B. The wife requires the husband to wear a cock cage at all times (24/7), with her controlling when it comes off or goes back on. C. If he breaks any rules or violates this agreement, the wife will punish and correct him. D. She may discuss their chastity arrangement with trusted friends if she needs extra support. E. The husband agrees to keep his cock cage on 24/7 and won’t try to remove it without her permission. F. He is responsible for keeping everything clean by washing the cage and genitals every day. G. With prior approval from the wife, he may take off the chastity cage for hygiene reasons, approved exercise, medical visits, or passing through airport security. H. He must obey all of his wife’s sexual demands and participate in requested activities whenever asked. I. The husband agrees to use any sexual tools she requests—such as vibrators, butt plugs, dildos, penis extensions, strap-on dildos, restraints, or paddles—to satisfy her sexually. J. He accepts that his wife will use these devices on him for her enjoyment and amusement without complaining. K. He submits to weekly prostate milking by the wife to ensure good health. L. Every time he feels an orgasm coming on, he must tell his wife and ask for permission. KEYS A. The wife will always wear the chastity cage key visibly, either as a necklace, bracelet, or anklet. Sexual Gratification & Orgasms A. The wife agrees to prioritize her own sexual satisfaction regularly. This includes demanding oral sex, asking for massages, and using aids like penis sheaths and vibrators. B. Even if the wife has many orgasms, that does not automatically mean the husband gets one too. C. She will tease him, deny him, or edge him regularly to build up sexual frustration. D. The wife allows the husband exactly one (1) full orgasm every four (4) weeks. Household Duties and Chores A. The wife expects her husband to handle: _____________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ AGREEMENT AGREED TO BY: Definitions CHASTITY CAGE: A lockable wearable device that encloses the penis, designed for constant wear to prevent selfish masturbation and control all male erections and orgasms. KEY HOLDER: The person who holds the key and controls the device. By definition, the KEY HOLDER has absolute authority over how the male’s sexual organs are used. TEASE & DENIAL: Keeping the male aroused through verbal and physical communication for a set time. Denial means stopping him from any orgasm during sexual play. During this phase, he may stay in or out of the chastity cage depending on what the Key Holder prefers. EDGING: Gently bringing the male to the brink of climax via stimulation. When he is almost there—all activity halts until his urge passes. The Key Holder resumes stimulation just enough to bring him back to the edge, then stops again. This cycle repeats multiple times, leaving the male sexually frustrated yet obedient. RUINED ORGASM: He must notify you when he is about to climax. You continue physical activity past the point of no return, then abruptly stop or squeeze his balls firmly during ejaculation, or place a finger over the urethra until it ends. He ejaculates but lacks the sensation of a Full Orgasm, leaving him frustrated and more eager to please. FULL ORGASM: The Key Holder removes the chastity cage so he can complete an orgasm naturally. PROSTATE MILKING: Essential for male health in this lifestyle. Since full orgasms are rare now that masturbation is out, semen accumulates and needs weekly flushing. Gently rubbing his prostate with a finger releases fluid without giving him a full orgasm. This counts as a ruined orgasm too. DOMESTIC DISCIPLINE: The wife establishes rules, guidelines, and penalties for specific mistakes to correct behavior. It helps maintain a stable, harmonious home. In a loving way, she may spank or paddle unacceptable behavior so he can improve in the future.