Hello CM! I’m curious about how many men enjoy being kept in chastity devices by their wives or partners while still maintaining a non-submissive role in their daily routines? Occasionally, I find myself mentally wrestling with the desire to fully embrace this lifestyle. It gets tricky when I’m not in those sexual contexts where I naturally take charge. My girlfriend supports my cage use, but after she lets me have sex and I reach an orgasm, it becomes really difficult for me to return to the lock even though logically I know I’ll miss it again within a few days. I feel guilty oscillating between being locked up and free, but once I get past those first failed tries, I truly want to commit. The initial couple of weeks are particularly tough, especially right after an orgasm release. Any advice on handling this? Thanks everyone!
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