Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

The other day I had to get a physical for work. The Doctor was a mid to upper 30’s beautiful dark haired woman. The urine test showed a minor trace of something she asked me about. I asked if that could be tied to a man’s reproductive stuff. She said, “Possibly, why do you ask?” Put on the spot I said, “My… (I almost said keyholder) partner and I practice tease and denial.” “What does that mean” she asked. With some hesitation again I said, “It means I am brought very close to orgasm almost every day but I only ejaculate about once a month. So, I wonder if that build up could be why there is something showing up in my urine.” Dr: “I assume she does the same thing” Me: “No she gets off almost every day…several times.” Dr: Laughs out loud, “Really that’s interesting. How did you get started doing this? Something you found online? Me: “Yes! Well it started when I was out of town for several days and didn’t get an opportunity to take care of business myself. When I got home my wife said Wow the sex was really good! Maybe I’ll have to make you wait several days more often!” I said I would be open to that so we researched it online. There is a lot of info online about a woman controlling when her man is allowed to cum.” Dr: “Who did the research, you or her?” My mind was racing but I realized she was not asking because of my urine test. Me: “We both did. My Wife sent me an excerpt from an article she found that said, “Ladies, how would you like it if your husband treated you like he did when you first started dating? Imagine, even now, no matter how many years you have been together he felt like he had to win your affection every single day. Believe it or not, it is possible and many women are enjoying this “It sounds to good to be true” lifestyle today, and you could be too.” She added a note that said, “What woman wouldn’t want that?” Dr: “It WOULD be nice if my boyfriend felt that way.” With that comment I could tell she was thinking about if it would be possible for her. It gave me the boldness to say, “At first my wife was too nice to make me wait more than a few days. So she took 10 playing cards, the ace through the 10 and had me draw a card to determine how many days I’d have to wait. The first two time were low numbers but the 3rd time was a 10. Around day 4 she said, “I’m really liking how you are treating me.” And later she said after that it just got better and better. So from now on no more than once a week. From there it wasn’t long before it was once every two weeks then about once a month. Dr: WOW, really!!! Me: “Here is what might be hard for you to understand, I really like it too.” Dr: “Seriously!” Me: “Yes, When I do have an orgasm it is WAY BETTER than anything I ever experienced before. They are so much more intense it’s worth the wait. And when we have intercourse I will get close a few times and ask if I can and she always says no until she is thoroughly satisfied. When she is all set she will say “Not today” instead of no. That means I can get myself as close as I want and linger there for as long as I can stand it. I told her that when I do that I sometimes have mini orgasms without ejaculating. She looked me in the eyes and said, “REALLY… that’s interesting…” Me: “She says about 3 days after I cum I just start treating her better. And it just get better and better and better. She says because of this I treat her better than I did when we first started dating. And I like that she feels that way. Me: “I’m only a little over two weeks into the cycle but I wonder if that could be why there is something showing up in my urine.” Dr: “I’m not sure. I’d have to research it but when something like that shows up I am required to recommend you go to your own doctor.” With that she handed me some paperwork, said “It was nice meeting you” and left the room.