The hardest part for me about being locked up is when I don’t feel particularly engaged by the experience. This happens either because I’ve been forgotten while in my cage, or simply because it’s one of those off days. While there are forums here covering every aspect of chastity imaginable, I notice a gap in support during those weak moments when I start doubting the whole setup.
Sexual frustration and teasing/denial… these are exactly why we do this! It’s precisely when neither is happening that we feel like giving up. We need reminders about our purpose: for her sake, because we want to empower her and let her stay free from our advances.
I’m not entirely sure where I’m heading with this post, but it feels like there could be more support here to help us navigate the lulls of chastity. Sometimes I seek that out in the chat room, though results are inconsistent. It’s almost as if we need a ‘sponsor’ just like they do in AA lol!