While waiting for my precious wife to get more comfortable with her own sexuality and hopefully kinky side to be, I am enforcing myself to not masturbate anymore at all. No cage though, as I do not want to press the matter to my wife. Just pointing it down;) It is friggin’ tough! I have been holding on for many weeks now, but I think I may lose control at some point, sometimes my fantasies go wild. I apparently also have vivid dreams according to her, as I apparently make some wild noise while sleeping. Been making sure I have as little alone time as possible, to avoid me going at it. Sometimes while just snuggling with her I get a raging boner, but she just acknowledges it to be there, and nothing more. If only she would tell me in a more bossy tone that I am being denied, I would be over the moon LOL… I am still hoping for her to take control and cage me, but that will take time and talking. Any tips that make it easier to cope with my self imposed non-selfgratification would be greatly appreciated.
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Controlling your urges without a cage is difficult and a good start. It sounds like you need more honest and intimate conversations with your wife about your interests and hers. Hopefully you can find a middle ground that will work for both of you. If you can demonstrate advantages for her as a consequence of chastity control, then you might be able to move in the direction. But establishing real conversation is the first step.
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