Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

My mistress has told me that I will be taking part in this.

I wear my cage around the clock, so it feels just like the other eleven months for me!

> madams-sissysub said: > I wear my cage around the clock, so it feels just like the other eleven months for me! > Click to expand... Congratulations. I hope you will encourage the rest of us who aren't as fortunate enough to be locked permanently or long-term, and are doing Locktober again or for the first time.

> Ricscages said: > My mistress has told me that I will be taking part in this. > Click to expand... Well done. So you pledge your support and commit to helping the others in our group?

I am going to propose this idea to my wife. A month isn't much longer than what we are used to, but it will be an interesting and enjoyable specific time frame. I have no 'en femme' events scheduled for October (which is rare), so that removes one possible conflict.

> BarbCD said: > I am going to propose this idea to my wife. A month isn't much longer than what we are used to, but it will be an interesting and enjoyable specific time frame. I have no 'en femme' events scheduled for October (which is rare), so that removes one possible conflict. > Click to expand... Doesn't being locked in chastity work towards achieving the 'en femme' state? I look forward to your pledge.

My Pledge: I, 'TitaniumJones', of this community, pledge my commitment to Locktober, To stay locked in chastity for the 31 days of Locktober, To abstain from orgasmic release for the 31 days of Locktober, To support other members who pledge their commitment to Locktober,

I know that many crossdressers/sissies/trans people do consider chastity part of feminization. I believe I am in the distinct minority because being caged creates both mental and practical conflict for my femme side. I don't dress up for kink or sexual pleasure, but because I love the clothes and enjoy being accepted as a woman in public. Call it emotional fulfillment. Mentally, wearing a cage increases focus on my penis, and chastity IS very sexual for me and my wife, so that is conflict #1. Practically speaking, it’s much easier to wear pencil skirts, sheath dresses, etc., with a good tuck. Even in a full skirt where the cage might be hidden, it feels more comfortable to simply wear control-top pantyhose or a control brief.

My wife giggled at a meme I sent her about Locktober and actually laughed out loud when she discovered No-cum November. I think she plans to keep me locked for both months. I hope so.

Still waiting on pledges........ I '---INSERT NAME/USERNAME---' of this community, pledge my commitment to Locktober, To stay locked in chastity for the 31 days of Locktober, To abstain from orgasmic release for the 31 days of Locktober, To support other members who pledge their commitment to Locktober,

> DoesasTold said: > My wife giggled at a meme I sent her about Locktober and actually laughed out loud when she discovered No-cum November. I think she plans to keep me locked for both months. > I hope so. > Click to expand... Good luck, I'm waiting on your pledge (and your wife's).

Lol, I pledge to be Locked for Locktober as long as my wife wishes. I promise not to ask to be unlocked during the month or foreseeable future. Her right however to demand use of my penis shall remain intact and if called upon for duty I will perform it! And I pledge support to everyone attempting the full month too. It’s not that hard (no pun intended) to go a full 31 days!

Well, I've been locked for over a month now with no release in sight. Before that, I was locked for over a month and only released briefly. So a whole month isn't terribly unique. That said, I mentioned Locktober to my wife yesterday. She is quite the natural Domme and keyholder, but she hasn't read much on these topics, so she'd never heard of Locktober. I explained it, and she reminded me that we have an upcoming trip starting early Oct with the kids, which wouldn't be ideal for me being locked up. "Oh, yeah...." I said, then she immediately added, "But that doesn't mean I won't lock you up as soon as we return and keep you locked through October *and November*!"

> DoesasTold said: > My wife giggled at a meme I sent her about Locktober and actually laughed out loud when she discovered No-cum November. I think she plans to keep me locked for both months. > I hope so. > Click to expand... Well, that's just as it should be! Hope you get plenty of teasing!:lockkey::)

I know many men go months without cumming or release, but just like running a marathon or going to the gym, we all have our limits and demons. Locktober isn't for those who are long-term/permanently locked; it's aimed at new guys starting out in Chastity. For many, going a month without release is their own personal marathon. I'm looking to get many new guys to commit to what feels like a very long time to them. For those where this is easy as pie, we should support those just beginning their long-term locking journey. Encouraging, persuading, offering advice and guidance. The act of making a pledge is symbolic and aims to encourage people to join the fun. To many, a month feels like an eternity. If you regularly go one, two, or three months without release, great. Now help encourage others to follow your example. Mentor them. Guide them.

> BarbCD said: > I know that many crossdressers/sissies/trans people do consider chastity part of feminization. I believe I am in the distinct minority because being caged creates both mental and practical conflict for my femme side. I don't dress up for kink or sexual pleasure, but because I love the clothes and enjoy being accepted as a woman in public. Call it emotional fulfillment. Mentally, wearing a cage increases focus on my penis, and chastity IS very sexual for me and my wife, so that is conflict #1. Practically speaking, it’s much easier to wear pencil skirts, sheath dresses, etc., with a good tuck. Even in a full skirt where the cage might be hidden, it feels more comfortable to simply wear control-top pantyhose or a control brief. > Click to expand... Please note that if you don't have to wear a cage all the time and are allowed to tuck so you can wear nice clothes, it doesn't mean you cannot still be in chastity.

My Mistress has a question. If you participate in Locktober, do you have to keep a daily photo journal of being locked in your cage? And post it here for everyone to see? My Mistress's property will be pictured and posted for all to view. Her Majesty has commanded this rule for me.

> Ricscages said: > My Mistress has a question. If you participate in Locktober, do you have to keep a daily photo journal of being locked in your cage? And post it here for everyone to see? My Mistress's property will be pictured and posted for all to view. Her Majesty has commanded this rule for me. > Click to expand... I'm sure no one minds if you share your pictures. I hope the site helps people get through what could be a very difficult month for many.