I recently dated someone who was into chastity. It was a lot of fun. However, I realized something: I really did not want to orgasm. There was plenty of teasing, and she had many orgasms, but every time she asked if I wanted to cum, my honest answer would have been “no”. Maybe I didn’t want the fantasy to end, or maybe I don’t know. Sometimes I said “yes”, but mainly because I believe my desperation turned her on and it was part of the “play”. But truth is, I would have preferred no orgasm. Finally coming after 4 weeks felt kinda disappointing. Anyone similar experiences? If you read online, the desperation is part of the thrill, but when I was in chastity, I never really felt desperate. I felt horny, submissive, obedient, at ease, but not desperate. Mainly happy to be in chastity.
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