I’m approaching my first 72-hour locked period. My wife and I have never done anything remotely kinky, although I always secretly wanted to try so much. Last night was interesting. She can already see how often I approach her for erotic touch and how turned on I am, and she enjoys feeling desired like this again; I can tell. She also enjoys saying no. Last night as we lay in the dark I tried again and we kissed and touched, and she said no again. I rolled over and exclaimed OW because my cage hurt, telling her that I was so turned on my cage was hurting a little (hurting in that good way of course). She said “That cage is cruel. It’s like masochism.” I said “yes,” then there was a pause. Then I asked “Do you like it if it’s masochism?” She said “It’s like bondage.” I asked “Does it excite you if it’s bondage and masochism?” And she turned away with an embarrassed smile and said “Ok, time to sleep now.” So I hugged her and playfully asked again “Do you like it if it’s bondage and masochism?” She said “Yes. Now time to go to sleep.” She was smiling again but trying to hide her embarrassed face. So I asked “Oh my…Does she have secrets?!” And she again hid her embarrassed face and quietly said “yes, but I’ll tell you later. Now, time to sleep”
So the wager is on whether she will be wishing to be restrained/spanked or desiring to do the restraining/spanking. If it’s the latter then I’ll be questioning whether I’ve actually died and gone to heaven. But we’re all going to bet on the former thought, right? Which will be a weird dynamic. Spank me and dominate me and I’ll release you from chastity? I guess maybe we could both switch and any BDSM dialogue is wonderful for us to try many things. But yes, tell me she’s about to start horsewhipping me too. Just let me have that dream for a little while?