I’ve been wearing my chastity device for several days, and the ball ring is starting to cause pain while I sleep. It’s a Bon4m Plus (though some of its edges could be more rounded). I’ve heard that certain oils help? What are the top picks? Thanks
You'll mainly have to choose between oils and creams/lotions. Oils, often petroleum-based (baby oil gel is a favorite), last longer and stay slippery throughout the day. However, they can stain your underwear and need thorough cleaning because they trap sweat, urine, and body oils, which can lead to odors. Creams wear off faster and might require reapplication during the day. They are easier to wash out, usually just needing a hot shower with plenty of soap. While they also trap sweat and urine, washing them out easily keeps you cleaner. If you're new to wearing a device, starting with oil until your body adjusts is wise before switching to creams.