As I mentioned before, my journey into chastity began a few months ago. You might relate to the tale of two hardworking individuals in their mid-40s: deeply in love but completely swamped by career demands, yet striving to deepen their bond and enhance intimacy. While searching online for ways to improve our connection, I stumbled upon chastity. Once I decided on it, I made several changes: adjusting my work habits where possible, carving out private time, and stopping masturbation and porn consumption to cultivate “my own satisfied feelings”.
Now, five months later, we both manage work and personal life better than before. My focus on my wonderful wife has intensified significantly. After sharing my “chastity fantasy” with her a while back, she accepted it graciously. Her initial reaction was “….I knew there was something more inside of you, but I was not able to get this out…”. When I asked her to take full control over my orgasms, she agreed right away. We have experimented with locking me in chastity, and she has developed a more dominant demeanor during our intimate times. Since then, all my orgasms are initiated and directed by her. Meanwhile, she enjoys the massages, cuddles, and intimacy I provide.
However, she remains somewhat hesitant about instructing me to wear the chastity cage consistently. She worries it might cause discomfort or isn’t ideal for health reasons. Still, we agreed on finding a custom-made solution to resolve my current “fitting issues”. She continues to wonder why the cage matters so much. While she loves our new dynamic, she occasionally asks typical “why questions,” as if realizing our relationship has deepened since “activating my chastity.” I am still trying to explain why I want to wear my cage more often; it feels very intimate when she holds my key and controls me.
During intimacy, she adores PIV. She has taught me how to behave and control my orgasm in a dominant manner to maximize her pleasure. In our last encounter, she kept me inside her continuously without letting me climax. I only released when she gave the strong command. Without that final instruction, I felt I could have lasted for hours.
My conclusion so far is that we are on an ongoing journey where “we don’t know yet.” We both enjoy her dominant control over my orgasms as it trains me to behave well, please her, and endure denial. My orgasms are currently denied for 2-4 weeks, but I hope for longer durations soon. I am eagerly waiting for her request to be caged more frequently and for extended periods without rushing her or letting impatience take over.
I look forward to your reactions and advice on where we stand “on our route”.