[Image: 1E3B98AC-BA69-4124-956C-31FDE7BE4AED.jpeg] I received a polite, well-written email from him that went into considerable detail about his life. Thinking it deserved attention, I replied and we exchanged messages and emails back and forth. Then I locked myself out of my inbox because I forgot the password; when I finally got back in roughly a month later… I reached out to helots again, but he had assumed I wasn’t interested since I’d met someone else… so I wished him well and moved on with life.
About eight months later, I purchased a violet wand for The Lair, my dungeon. Since my sub partner has a serious heart condition, there was no one available to test it. Being myself, I posted an ad in my FetLife status looking for a Guinea pig to try out the device, and helots emailed me asking if he could be the test dummy… that moment marked the start of our journey 3 1/2 years ago… this November marks four full years together: three and a half as his owned, collared slave.
The night after my status post, we arranged to meet at my place for a wand trial… he arrived, and we chatted about limits, boundaries, health issues, etc. Then I had him strip down onto the dungeon bed and brought out the wand, only to find it wasn’t working; it must have been damaged during shipping:-( So instead of leaving empty-handed, I caned him after he admitted to being quite a masochist…so we didn’t waste the evening. We played until around 10:30 PM when he headed home while I was still buzzing.
The next day, I received a lovely email expressing how much he enjoyed meeting me and playing in The Lair. He asked if I would see him again that coming week; I agreed but assigned him the task of writing an essay about himself—specifically his submissive side, highlighting both his favorite and least favorite aspects of BDSM. I arranged for him to come back a similar time as our first meet-up last week. After reading through his submission, I selected several points from both his likes and dislikes. We played in the dungeon for another few hours… this time though, before he left, I locked him into the chastity device (cb6000) that he had brought along. And sent him on his way:) that was the beginning of our chastity journey, 3 1/2 years ago… I can honestly say I have enjoyed every minute of having him as my slave. He’s a joy to own. He has remained in chastity all this time except for visits back to The Lair where I unlock him for CBT then send him home re-locked… during this period he was allowed out his device occasionally, perhaps totaling about 8 weeks total for medical appointments and holidays abroad. For the past 3 1/2 years… I do allow him ruined orgasms or occasional releases as a reward. But he always gets re-locked before leaving; for himself he has a combination keysafe with a spare key inside and must call me to get the number in emergencies.