I’ve just been reading through the thread on porn addiction and it sparked some thoughts. Is anyone else finding they get tired of watching porn? Do you notice that what used to really excite you now feels a bit repetitive?
It might be due to low testosterone or stress in my daily life, but I often find myself masturbating without much actual arousal, just going through the routine. Despite being under 40 and having always considered my libido strong—I think about sex as frequently as ever—it doesn’t seem to trigger that same high level of mental or physical excitement anymore.
I’m curious if my wife were to take control with the key in a more serious way, could my brain eventually recalibrate…
We’ve had long discussions about this and our different levels of sexual interest. However, she seems keen to let it be, and I don’t want to force the issue.