So we’ve been using Trojan brand condoms with the numbing liquid already applied. Only problem is that after about ten minutes of total numbness I lose my hard on. I’d love to fuck her for much longer. Any suggestions? Viagra works well with the numbing? I’ve never tried Viagra so am clueless.
Not the easiest thing to do but you could train yourself. Something that I did was shift my focus during PIV to Her pleasure only. If I ever felt myself close to cumming, I let Her know and we would change positions. That would give me a bit of time to desensitize. It also helps that Her favorite position is cowgirl so She takes full control when on top. Again, I am vocal to Her and let Her know when I'm close so She can decide if She wants to ride the orgasm or if She would slow down and give me time to desensitize. I've been able to go for an hour (with position changes) while giving Her crazy multiple orgasms. We typically don't go longer than that due to Her being exhausted from so much cumming. Also, in our dynamic, She has full control of my orgasms so there are many times when She finishes and leaves me without an orgasm.